The way you treat others is the way they will treat you. This is especially true when dealing with children and teenagers. Not only will you see your behavior towards them mirrored in their responses to you, you will also be teaching them how to relate to the world.
What are you teaching your children?
Are you using:
The Seven Deadly Habits of External Control
Los Siete Hábitos Fatales del Control Externo
- Criticizing/Criticando
- Blaming/Hechando la Culpa
- Complaining/Quejando
- Nagging/Regañando
- Threatening/Amenazando
- Punishing/Castigando
- Rewarding/Dando un Premio
Choice Theory, The Mentally Healthy Alternative to External Control
La Alternativa Sana al Control Externo
- Supporting/Dando Apoyo
- Encouraging/Dando Animo
- Listening/Escuchando
- Accepting/Aceptando
- Trusting/Teniendo Confianza
- Respecting/Dando Consideratión
- Negotiating Differences/Abriéndose Camino Por Las Diferencias
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